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Selling to the person behind the customer

The best salesperson is not the one who talks the most. It is the one who works out fastest who they are talking to. This talk is about the person behind the customer: what makes them say yes, and what makes them switch off before you have reached slide two.

What the talk is about

Most salespeople have one way of selling. It works brilliantly on customers who resemble the salesperson and terribly on everyone else. The problem is not the product or the price. The problem is that the salesperson is pitching to themselves.

The talk gives your sales team a tool for reading the customer's type and buying motive within a few minutes. Some customers want figures and documentation, some want the relationship in place first, and some just want to know if it works and when it can be delivered. Once you can see the difference, you can adjust your arguments, pace and tone without it turning into manipulation.

We use examples from real sales situations, ideally your own, and participants practise spotting the types as we go. The talk draws on many years of work with sales organisations and on Balder's own years in Executive Search, where you learn quickly that people buy from people.

Balder Vendt-Striim teaching the Enneagram in sales

What participants take home

  • A tool for reading the customer's type and buying motive quickly
  • Concrete ways to adjust arguments, pace and relationship to the individual customer
  • Insight into their own sales pattern, and which customers it works worst on
  • Better handling of objections, because they understand where the objection is really coming from

Suits

Sales teams, key account managers, kick-offs and sales conferences. Also for advisers and consultants who sell themselves and their expertise.

Formats

Choose the format that suits your event. Every topic can be delivered in every format.

FormatDurationTypically forWhat you get
Keynote45 to 60 minutesKick-off, conference, staff dayEnergy and lightbulb moments for a big room at once
Talk with dialogue1.5 to 2 hoursManagement team, department, networkRoom for questions and your own examples
Workshop3 hoursTeam, department, sales or service teamParticipants work with their own type and how they work together
Half-day session3.5 to 4 hoursTeam or management team that wants to go deeperWorkshop plus concrete agreements on what you do afterwards

Price

From 16,000 DKK excl. VAT
Book an in-house intro course within 3 months and you get 11,000 DKK back. The talk then costs you 5,000 DKK
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Note: All prices are in Danish kroner (DKK), which is the invoiced currency, and excl. VAT. For talks and workshops outside Denmark, we send you a quote.

Does it need adapting to you?

Every talk is built around your own examples. If you are facing a very particular situation, we tailor the content. If you want to keep working on it afterwards, the sales training is the natural next step.

Frequently asked questions

Isn't selling to the customer's type just manipulation?
No. Manipulation is getting someone to buy something they do not need. This is about explaining what they do need in a way they can actually hear. That is good customer understanding, not a trick.
Can the talk be combined with sales training?
Yes. Many use the talk as the starting point and carry on with the sales module as an in-house course, where the team trains on its own customer cases.
What does a talk cost?
A talk or workshop costs from 16,000 DKK excl. VAT. Book an in-house intro course within 3 months of the talk and you get 11,000 DKK back, so in practice the talk costs 5,000 DKK. For talks outside Denmark we send you a quote.
Can the talk be tailored?
Yes. Every talk is adapted to your organisation and your examples. If you are facing something specific, such as a merger, a new management team or a team with friction, we build a talk for exactly that. Call or email Balder.

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Enneagram Courses · Vendt-Striim ApS
Balder Vendt-Striim
+45 40 72 40 11
balder@enneagram.dk