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Enneagram type 9, The Mediator

The Peacemaker · The Reconciler

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Enneagram type 9 is called The Mediator, and also The Peacemaker or The Reconciler. Type 9s belong to the body centre along with types 8 and 1 and are driven by having peace and harmony, inside and out. This page gives you the full picture: traits, wings, stress and security, subtypes, levels of development and how the type functions at work.

Are you calm, approachable and good at getting people to work together? Then you may be a type 9. Take the free test at 360indicator.

Type 9 at a glance

CentreBody centre, along with types 8 and 1
Basic fearLoss of connection, separation and conflict
Basic desireHaving peace and harmony, inside and out
PassionSloth
FixationIndolence
Special abilityAction
EssenceLove
Wingstype 8, The Challenger and type 1, The Reformer
Under stressTowards type 6, The Skeptic
In securityTowards type 3, The Achiever
Frequency7.5% of 8,355 full profiles
Line drawing of Enneagram type 9, The Mediator The Enneagram with type 9 highlighted. Red arrow towards type 6 under pressure, green arrow towards type 3 in security.
Type 9 in the Enneagram. The red arrow shows the movement towards type 6 under pressure. The green arrow shows the movement towards type 3 in security. The two blue rings mark the wings, type 8 and type 1.

Characteristics

Enneagram type 9s are easy-going, pleasant people who care about keeping a good atmosphere in the easiest possible way. They have a built-in gift for pouring oil on troubled waters, in the form of mediating skills that they use to maintain and restore calm and harmony.

They come across as good listeners and understanding people. They find it easy to understand everyone's point of view and make sure everyone is heard.

Enneagram type 9s adapt to their surroundings, in their opinions, appearance and language alike, because expressing their own opinions and needs is not important to them. Besides, they may not even know what they want or feel like doing, so the easiest thing is to go along with other people's good ideas.

Balder Vendt-Striim on the 255 ways type 9 says yes. In Danish with English subtitles (42 sec.)

How to recognise type 9

  • You try to avoid conflict, and you find it hard to say clearly when there is something you do not want to do.
  • You see all sides of an issue and combine everyone's views in your proposed solution.
  • There is plenty of time. It can wait until tomorrow.
  • It is easier to work out what you do not want than what you do want.
  • You let go of your own needs if others want something else.
  • You know the feeling of being at one with nature, with other people or with music.
  • You recharge when you are alone, but you are also enriched by other people's appreciation.
  • You can feel overlooked and at the same time feel that you are somehow more than others.

Strengths and resources

What they contribute

Enneagram type 9s have a reassuring presence, and people find them very understanding. They bring mediating skills that create a good atmosphere and make sure everyone is heard.

Where they thrive

Type 9s thrive best in a good, harmonious atmosphere, in an environment where there is time to get the full picture and find their balance.

Resources

Under stress and in security

When Enneagram type 9s are under pressure and stressed, they become suspicious and doubtful of other people's intentions. They also become critical of themselves and others. The movement is towards type 6, The Skeptic.

When type 9s feel secure and experience harmony, they become efficient and start several projects at once. They get a lot done and become goal-oriented. The movement is towards type 3, The Achiever.

You do not change type. Other sides of you come to the fore, and which ones depends on your state. That is why you cannot read a person's type from behaviour alone.

The wings: 9w8 and 9w1

The wings are the two types on either side of type 9 in the Enneagram circle: type 8, The Challenger and type 1, The Reformer. Most people are influenced by one more than the other, which explains why two people of the same type can seem very different.

Type 9 with wing 8 (9w8)

A 9 with an 8 wing is more forceful and outspoken.

Type 9 with wing 1 (9w1)

A 9 with a 1 wing is more principled, orderly and structured.

The subtypes of type 9

Each of the nine types comes in three subtypes, depending on which instinctual drive dominates: self-preservation, social or one-to-one. The core type stays the same, but the subtype colours the way it expresses itself.

SubtypeHallmarkCommon pitfall
Self-preservationCalm in routines and small comfortsSmall comforts replacing what matters
SocialWorks hard for the community, makes the group functionBeing present in everyone's cause except their own
One-to-oneMerges with the person closest, takes on their rhythmNo longer telling their own wishes from borrowed ones

The self-preservation type 9

Self-preservation 9s find calm in the concrete and the habitual. Meals, routines, small comforts. There is a down-to-earth contentment here that is easier to live with than the big questions. The pitfall is that the small comforts end up replacing what really matters.

The social type 9

Social 9s work tirelessly for the community. They are the ones who make the group function, and they put their own needs aside without experiencing it as a sacrifice. The pitfall is that they can be deeply involved in everyone else's cause and still not be present in their own.

The one-to-one type 9

One-to-one 9s merge with whoever is closest to them. They take on the other person's rhythm, opinions and plans, often without noticing. The pitfall is that one day they can no longer tell what they want themselves from what they have taken on from others.

Type 9 through the nine levels of development

The Enneagram also describes how the type looks in different states. Don Riso and Russ Hudson divide each type into nine levels of development, grouped into three ranges: levels 1 to 3 are the healthy ones, levels 4 to 6 the average ones and levels 7 to 9 the unhealthy ones. A level describes a state. You move between levels, sometimes within a single day.

RangeLevelsWhat type 9 looks like
At their best1 to 3You wake up to your own life.
In everyday life4 to 6Comfort becomes habit.
Under pressure7 to 9You disconnect, stop reacting and let problems grow.

The healthy levels, 1 to 3

At the healthy levels, type 9s wake up to their own lives. They can sense what they want and say so without losing the peace. The openness they have always had is now combined with a clear presence, and that makes them unusually good company for others.

The average levels, 4 to 6

Here comfort becomes habit. Type 9s adapt, put off the unpleasant and keep themselves busy with things that do not require taking a stand. The anger is there, but it rarely surfaces; it turns into stubbornness and into tasks that never quite get finished.

The unhealthy levels, 7 to 9

At the unhealthy levels, type 9s disappear into themselves. They disconnect, stop reacting and let problems grow without stepping in. From the outside it looks calm, but it is a form of resignation, and it can be hard to get out of alone.

Type 9 at work

How to lead a type 9

Ask directly for their opinion: they rarely offer it unprompted, but they do have one. Be clear about priorities, or everything becomes equally important. Avoid applying pressure, because it makes them withdraw rather than speak up.

How to sell to a type 9

Give them time and do not push. Help them prioritise between the options, because too many choices lead to procrastination. Type 9s rarely say no outright, so ask specifically whether they are on board.

How to communicate with a type 9

Be calm and give them time to answer. Ask directly for their opinion, because they rarely volunteer it. Pressure and haste make them withdraw rather than object.

Your personal path of development

Enneagram type 9's path of development involves letting go of the fixation on keeping the peace and avoiding conflict. Instead, the Nine needs to develop the ability to act in the moment from their instinctive sense of things, and to get better at speaking up to others, even if it leads to conflict. Through this, the Nine comes into contact with the particular aspect of essence in which the natural state of the moment is love, whether there is conflict or harmony.

Mia Vendt-Striim on the development path of type 9: decisiveness and speaking up for yourself. In Danish with English subtitles (32 sec.)
Balder Vendt-Striim teaching Enneagram type 9 with a can of WD-40 in his hand
Balder Vendt-Striim teaching type 9. The can of WD-40 stands for the ability to keep things running smoothly between people.

Frequently asked questions about Enneagram type 9

What characterises Enneagram type 9, The Mediator?
Enneagram type 9s are easy-going, pleasant people who care about keeping a good atmosphere in the easiest possible way. They have a built-in gift for pouring oil on troubled waters, in the form of mediating skills that they use to maintain and restore calm and harmony.
What are type 9's basic fear and basic desire?
Type 9's basic fear is loss of connection, separation and conflict. The basic desire is having peace and harmony, inside and out.
What are type 9's wings, 9w8 and 9w1?
A 9 with an 8 wing is more forceful and outspoken. A 9 with a 1 wing is more principled, orderly and structured. Read more about type 8, The Challenger and type 1, The Reformer.
What happens to type 9 under stress and in security?
Under pressure, type 9 moves towards type 6, The Skeptic. In security, the movement is towards type 3, The Achiever. The type stays the same. Other sides of it simply come more clearly to the fore.
What is type 9 most often confused with?
In 360indicator's data, 88.1% confirmed type 9 when the test suggested it. Those who chose a different type most often picked type 7, type 2 or type 1. A test and a conversation about core motivation help tell them apart.
How do I know if I am Enneagram type 9?
Look at your motivation, not just your behaviour: type 9 is driven by having peace and harmony, inside and out. Take the free Enneagram test at 360indicator, or get the full profile with wings, stress and security in the premium test.
What is Enneagram type 9 like in love and relationships?
Type 9s are accepting, calm and supportive partners, but can forget their own needs and avoid conflict to keep the peace. When they feel secure, they become clearer, more decisive and more present.

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